Having purchased a raspberry pi 3 a few weeks ago, I was quite confused by almost every reference for install mentioning "plug in HDMI monitor and USB keyboard" as a step. While I've found references on how to do a headless install, it seems that many of the instructions come from a background of "you've already installed and run the graphical installer". As a person coming from an arduino/linux server background, I really don't need X11 for my use case and just want a powerful micro controller that I can setup via ssh (well, USB would be better, I still don't understand why you can't do this using the USB connection as a tty...but that's a different discussion). What follows are the steps I used...NOTE if you use the wrong disk number you will destroy potentially important information on your machine, use at your own risk and only do this if you understand what this means otherwise you will likely have an unusable machine or at a minimum lose information.
First, download the raspbian lite image.
Next, plug your sd card into your mac
and you should see an entry that corresponds to your SD card. My output had an entry similar to this (other output omitted)
/dev/disk2s1 129022 55730 73292 44% 0 0 100% /Volumes/mysdcard
Unmount the sd card:
sudo diskutil unmount /dev/disk2s1
Copy the image to the RAW device (this means /dev/rdisk2 instead of /dev/disk2s1...the disk number will quite likely be different on your machine)...
sudo dd if=2016-03-18-raspbian-jessie-lite.img of=/dev/rdisk2 bs=1m
Note, I'm not sure about the whole "block size" thing, but this is what I used.
This will run for a few minutes with no feedback, you can hit ctrl-T in your terminal to get a status output. Once this command has completed, you can eject the disk.
sudo diskutil eject /dev/rdisk2
now plug the sd card into your pi, power it up (via usb), and look for the device (plugged into ethernet) on your network. Assuming you've found the device's IP address (mine was at 192.168.1.105) you can then ssh into the machine with:
Using 'raspberry' as the password
At this point you should have a functional pi image and can continue with your configuration...My first set was to resize the root partition using raspi-config (as I have a 32gb card).
Hopefully these instructions will help 'slightly more advanced' users wade through the "Noob" clutter available on the internet.